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I’ve bought 20 boxes of Kwik Stix paint crayons over the years. Probably more. Yes, they’re that good. And that’s why I’m so excited to have partnered with The Pencil Grip, Inc to share my kids’ (& my!) love of Kwik Stix.
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I’ve found the Holy Grail arts & craft item for your kids (& you—but more on that below). They’re calledKwik Stix Paint Crayons.
Trust me on these.
I discovered Kwik Stix paint crayons a few years ago & it turns out they are one of my best Mom Hacks ever.
You know how sometimes you come across something that is just too good to be true? And then it usually really is too good to be true…? Well, not these.
I’m going to date myself a little bit here, but remember cray-pas? These are kind of like a new & improved cray-pa.
Kwik Stix are the perfect paint/crayon hybrid.
They’re solid tempera paint sticks in the size & shape of a glue stick. The best part? They dry in 90 seconds to a perfect paint-like finish. Oh, and they’re non-toxic, too.
I bought them on a whim when my son was about a year old because they got great reviews online. He loved them. I loved them. And since then, I’ve reordered them 20 or more times.
(Put it this way—I’ve bought them so many times that they always show up as one of my “Order it Again” items on Amazon…along with baby wipes. Do we ever stop using baby wipes? I think not.)
I keep them stocked at my house because we burn through ours and because they make the perfect gift for birthday parties. They’re a great price point & a hit with the kids.
We call them “paint crayons” because that’s essentially what they are. I’m going to tell you why my kids love them & then I’m going to tell you why I as a Mother love them (which is arguably more important, right?).
This is important. Kids love the bright & the fun. They’re not looking for muted colors or a barely yellow sunshine. They want the colors to show up the way they imagine them.
Putting those Amazon boxes to good use.
They are super smooth and glide across the page
My kids love to free-form paint & color & draw whatever they want. Sometimes we use the easel. Sometimes we use construction paper (or if we’re being honest, computer paper). And sometimes I lay out a huge roll of paper & we make giant banners that blanket our entire wall.
That must be one loved Daddy.
When they were younger, we used them with coloring books. We also loved the Thin Stix for that because they’re basically a thinner version of Kwik Stix with a finer point so they work great for staying in the lines. (Side note: We loved these big image coloring books when my kids were 2-4. They come in a bunch of themes.)
Kwik Stix aren’t just for paper.
These are on permanent display.
My kids paint rocks like it’s their job. And our beloved paint crayons allow us to paint the same rocks day after day after day. The paint dries quickly & easily & doesn’t smear all over the place.
I have countless pictures hanging on my fridge & cabinets (because we ran out of fridge space) & I love it. And I have a bowl of painted rocks sitting on our counter at all times. (I’m totally one of those Mamas, can’t you tell?)
Oh, and at Halloween—we paint pumpkins with them! We have yet to carve pumpkins yet (I’m not afraid to admit that is a little too ambitious for us at this point…aka, I don’t want to deal with that level of mess/clean up quite yet if I’m being honest.)
Body Paint, anyone?
Let’s not forget their favorite thing to paint—their bodies. YES, I let them color & paint all over their bodies often. Whenever they’re due for a bath, I let them go for it. Have I lost my mind? No. That’s how washable these are. (and also, non-toxic = YAY)
My kids paint tiger stripes & dinosaur spikes all over their arms, legs, and torsos. Then they paint each other’s backs. Next come cheetah spots. Then stars and moons. You name it, they paint it.
Dino on the loose.
Which leads me to why these deserve Mom Hack-status…
You don’t need brushes. You don’t need water. And there are no spills.
(A friend of mine told me her kid dips his (that we gave him for his birthday, obvi) in water to do watercolor painting. I thought that was brilliant but to be honest, I’ve never pulled out water to use with these because it’s just too easy without it & I’m not about to mess with something that works so perfectly. Same reason I don’t cut the crust off my kids’ sandwiches. They don’t know “crustless” is a thing & I want to keep it that way, ha.)
A Caterpillar Masterpiece
They’re non-toxic.
They’re also nut, egg and gluten free. I do the best I can as a Mom. We all do. And this makes me feel better.
Kwik Stix wash off with zero effort. ZERO.
Ready for the festival circuit.
This is my favorite part. Water takes Kwik Stix paint right off—you don’t even really have to scrub, just a little rub & poof—gone.
So once my kids look like they belong at Lollapalooza or Burning Man I throw them in the bath or shower & they immediately look like they belong at high tea. It’s the biggest win ever for Moms because we get to let our kids paint all over themselves with no worries about the clean up.
And the ease of cleaning isn’t limited to little walking tattoos. I love these modern day cray-pas because when I find a mark on the dining table or the hardwood floor or the kitchen counter, a baby wipe takes it right off. And it was even easy to get some marks off our couch (microsuede FTW). Hallelujah for that.
Kids need to be kids
Kids need to play & get messy & express themselves. This is a way to let their creativity flow while helping your your sanity stay put.
Your kids will think you’re the Best Mom Ever
Soak up the “Best Mom Ever” vibes because your kids can’t believe you’re actually letting them paint all over themselves.
And happily so.
And for all you teachers out there,these are a no-brainer for the classroom. The kids will adore them & you won’t have to think twice about the clean-up or scrubbing tables or floors or walls.
So, buy your kids a box of Kwik Stix. Watch them have a ball with them. Rinse and repeat…aka rinse & reorder them because trust me, you’ll need more.
Check out allThe Pencil Grip, Inc.‘s products on Amazon. *Next on my list to try are Wonder Stix (which write on everything from dry erase boards to windows & are perfect for teachers, too) & their famous Pencil Grips to help my son learn to hold a pencil/marker/etc. correctly!
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Real talk: The Homer educational learning app is the specific reason I got my kids a tablet. No joke.
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(*Here’s the link to a month of HOMER Learning free in case you want to skip the article. I asked for a discount for all my C’MON MAMA peeps & they gave us an awesome one.)
I swear by this app.
HOMER Learning is the first thing like this I’ve ever shared with yall. I wanted to give it a solid try first, and I’m sold. After using it for 18 months, I can honestly say I believe in it.
At the beginning of the pandemic/quarantine, I was immediately desperate for something to help supplement my kids’ learning since we suddenly found ourselves home 24/7 with no “true” school…& an exhausted Mama. Parents all over were forced to quickly come up with creative at-home solutions for continued learning.
I’d been wanting to try the HOMER Learning app for months but we didn’t have tablets…yet. Welllll, quarantine was the straw that broke that camel’s (or should I say Mama’s?) back & I sucked it up & finally bought iPads…and immediately downloaded HOMER.
My kids are 4.5 & almost 7 and the HOMER Learning app is everything I was hoping it would be—and then some! It’s honestly the ONLY app we have/use, and that’s because:
1) It’s very intuitive to use and the interface & navigation is SUPER kid-friendly (which means I don’t have to oversee anything…at all). Kids can use it completely autonomously, which is a godsend for parents (hellooo, few minutes to finally hear yourself think!) and also builds their confidence because they actually can “do it all by themselves.”
and 2) It covers so many topics that we don’t need anything else. (And yes, it has games! Endless games. But they’re all educational without seeming totallyyy educational. Win Win.)
HOMER is honestly an all-in-one.
HOMER offers elements geared toward reading, phonics, spelling, sight words, math, social/emotional learning aspects, vocabulary, thinking skills…you name it—and every single thing is educational. It also has many of kid’s favorite stories & characters presented in an interactive learning format. I love letting my kids play away knowing that they are actually soaking in endless information & skills.
HOMER is very cognitively enriching and is tailored to each child—which is perhaps my favorite part!
HOMER creates a custom learning “pathway” with topics & skills based on each child’s age, learning level, & interests (dinos & marine life in our case!). And, that pathway naturally advances & updates as they learn. It grows with them.
I’ve seen big jumps in even just my kids’ vocabulary. Playing outside one day, my 3 year old (at the time) remarked that 2 leaves were “very similar to each other” and I asked where she learned that word. She responded that she “heard it on HOMER.” I also love the history lessons and scientific discoveries they learn about. We would dominate a trivia night on insects. Just try us.
Yes, I love HOMER. But more importantly, my kids love it. And they’re learning like crazy from it—which takes away any screen time guilt.
HOMER is geared for ages 2-8. And just 15 minutes a day has been shown to increase early reading scores by 74%! I’m here for that.
Another thing I’m here for is the fact that the HOMER Learning App has ZERO ads.
That’s a huge plus. Instead of my kids being exposed to endless commercials and ads that I constantly have to skip/manage (or that I forget to skip & then realize they’re hearing & seeing something I don’t want them to), I can give them their tablets, headphones & turn on HOMER…and not think twice about “what might come on.”
My kids are obsessed and beg me to be able to “do Homer.” And I act like it’s a big treat to let them when in fact I’m thrilled they want to.
Because, listen—if I’m going to give my kids a tablet to sit down with, HOMER is 1000% what I want them doing.
And you know what? Now that my oldest is home doing virtual school, I need something to occupy my younger child…and keep her QUIET so I can help him. HOMER Learning has come to the rescue, yet again!
After a year of using HOMER, I loved it so much that I contacted them for a discount to share—& they gave us an awesome discount for C’MON MAMA: 1 FREE MONTH! It’s usually $9.99 a month & worth every penny. I tried it free first, too, and totally fell in love with it. Oh, and you can have up to 4 children (with 4 personalized pathways) on a single membership = a deal steal!
The discount will show up automatically when you click the link & go through the pathway.
Happy Learning for your kids…
…and Happy Moments of Silence for you Mamas—because silence in Motherhood is usually anything but golden.
But when your kids are learning with HOMER, the silence is totally GOLDEN. Enjoy.
And it’s not just me who loves HOMER Learning this much. Check out the amazing reviews for it on Common Sense Media—my favorite website to read reviews written by other parents on shows, movies & apps.
Well, if there’s one thing that unifies us as parents, it’s that we all have to deal with potty-training at some point or another.
And if there’s one thing that divides us, it’s how we go about it. And when.
There’s a lot of hoopla around potty-training.
Like a lot.
Everyone thinks they know the “right way” to potty-train. I’m here to tell you that there isn’t a right way. There’s a way that works for you & your kid. And that makes it right, no matter when or how you choose to do it.
I’ll share our potty-training experiences & my potty-training tips, but different strokes for different folks, y’know?
Especially when it comes to something like potty-training.
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(If you just want to skip straight to the list of things you need to make potty-training smoother, click here. If you want to know about our very different potty-training experiences with our son & daughter + my potty-training tips, keep reading.)
We have never “tried” to potty-train our kids (well, I tried for about 20 minutes, but more on that below). I have a 6 year old son and a 4 year old daughter. Our potty-training experiences with them were very different.
Maybe I’m the only Mom in the world who feels this way, but I was never in a rush to potty-train. I think diapers are easy & I was never in a hurry to get out of them. Sure, diapers are expensive. But they make up for it in convenience.
My son potty-trained around 3.5+ years old. There were many people who couldn’t believe we hadn’t potty-trained him before then. Add to that the fact that my son is absolutely huge for his age—and always has been. He’s an extremely tall & big little boy. So that just compounded everyone’s surprise that he was still in diapers at 3 years old.
Fortunately, I had a husband who not only supported my desire to not rush potty-training, but who wholeheartedly agreed. He’s a urologist and though he doesn’t do pediatrics, one of his former colleagues is a renowned pediatric urologist—Dr. Steve Hodges. He writes books on potty-training. Literally.
When many of my Mom friends were potty-training their kids around 2 years old using the “3 day method,” I watched and listened. Most of them were successful. I was pregnant with my daughter & not eager to get my son out of diapers, but I decided to give it a try since 1) they made it look so easy and 2) I thought, “Okay, well I only have 1 child now so maybe it’s a good idea to knock this out before I have my baby.”
I tried potty-training for one morning. Actually, if we’re being honest, it was about 20 minutes.
In that 20 minutes, my 2.5 year old little boy listened to me, took off his diaper, peed on the floor and then showed me proudly. He did exactly what I’d asked him to try to do, albeit in the wrong spot. But my reaction broke him. I saw it and said “Oh no, not on the floor honey! We don’t want it on the floor, we want it in the potty!”
Rookie mistake.
Looking back, I still bothers me that I got upset with him on his first try of a brand new thing. A thing he actually had listened to me about and just hadn’t done it exactly like I wanted.
My response crushed him. I saw the disappointment in him—disappointment in himself and in my response—and realized I was stressing my baby out. Yes, baby. 2.5 years old is a baby in my book.
I decided right then we weren’t ready—not him and not me. I held him, he cried, I cried, & then I called my husband and said “I’m not doing this, we’re not ready.” And he said, “Great. I don’t think we should be in any rush.”
God I love that man.
Later he called his friend Dr. Hodges to discuss it & Dr. Hodge’s biggest potty-training tip was not to rush. He pointed out that (save for children with special needs) every child potty-trains eventually. It’s not a race. Dr. Hodges sees all kinds of complications in children that can stem from potty-training too soon & kids not emptying all the way (see: prolonged bed-wetting & constipation, etc.). I’m not a doctor so I’m not going into any of that. I agree with some of it & I disagree with some of it.
Again, I’m not a doctor.
But I am a Mom.
And what I say is this:
What works for your kid, works. If they potty-train younger than most = GREAT! If they potty-train later than most = GREAT!
You do you. Or actually just let them do them.
I have many, many friends whose kids were fully potty-trained by 2 years old. Successfully and perfectly.
I have many, many friends whose kids were fully potty-trained by 4-5 years old. Successfully and perfectly.
When we did potty-train my son, it’s because he was talking about going potty. He was ready. I had a brand-new baby at home in diapers so I wasn’t thrilled that he was ready, but we rolled with it. He did beautifully. He started out sitting down to pee, then started standing up. To this day he usually stands but will occasionally sit to pee (kind of like my husband now that I think about it, ha).
Caveman-style.
He struggled with pooping in the potty at first. This is totally normal. It can be a really scary thing for kids. They worry about it splashing, about the sound it will make, about how it will fall out—you name it. He wanted to wear a diaper to poop, so we put one on him when he asked for it. Then when he inevitably pooped in the diaper, we’d empty it in the potty together & flush it.
One of the best things I bought was the Squatty Potty (linked below—I gotcha). We now own 3 if that tells you anything. Ever notice how little kids will do a little bend or an almost-squat when they are pooping in their diaper? It’s because that angle un-kinks the colon & allows the poop to come out in more of a straight shot.
Yes, we’re talking a lot about poop. But just keeping it real. There’s a lot of poop in Motherhood.
It took one time of him successfully pooping on the potty (while crying the whole time) to get rid of diapers for good. The second it came out he was so relieved & so thrilled that he’d done it. He never put on a diaper again. (We never messed with pull-ups. Or stickers/treats, etc., because we ended up just letting potty-training happen more organically….but I know that works for lots!)
Which meant we had to convert his crib to a toddler bed. Yes, he was 3.5 and yes, he was still in his crib. He loved his crib & so did we. He never once tried to climb out of it & he never once complained about it. It kept him contained & in his room…& happy. He actually cried when we changed it to the toddler bed, though of course he LOVED it immediately.
I already told you I’m not a Mother who feels the need to rush through any of these parenting/child milestones. And I wasn’t lying (obvi). I’m a big believer in the whole “the days are long but the years are short” thing.
So that was him. And this is her:
My daughter was ready to start potty-training when she was 2.5.
Potty-training wasn’t on our radar at all with her because our son was ready later. But, SHE started talking about the potty. Wanting to sit on the potty. She has a big brother & she wants to be just like him. So it only makes sense that she wanted to go potty like him, too. (And quite literally, might I add. That little girl wanted to stand up & pee just like her bro.)
She was ready to potty-train.
So we pulled our tiny toilet back out & just set it in the bathroom for her to try. She started using it. She surprised us how quickly she got it. So much so that she had to wear her brother’s little boxer undies for a few days while I Amazon primed her some.
She still wore diapers during naps & bedtime for about 6 months after she started potty-training.
My son never did that. He went straight from diapers to no diapers, period.But she was happy wearing diapers at naps & bedtime, and so was I. And I was in no rush to convert her bed so that she can get out & go potty on her own. I hold onto the crib years as long as I can because sometimes confinement = sanity (for Mama). Just like her brother, for a little while my daughter still requested a diaper to poop (constipation/hard poops make learning to go in the potty tougher).
My best potty-training tip is not to stress about it. And not to stress your child.
They will potty-train. It might be easy for her. It might be hard for him. She might do it later than you expect. He might do it earlier than you expect.
This is one of those things I think you just have to live your way into.
Another potty-training tip I want to give is this: If what you’re doing isn’t working, stop.
If what you try causes stress, stop. If you need to quit & try again a full year later like I did, do it. Don’t be swayed by what everyone else around you is doing. Do what works for you. And yours.
And my last potty-training tip: Be prepared for comments from others.
Whether your child potty-trains earlier or later, someone is always going to have something to say. I can promise you that. There’s definitely some judgment when it comes to potty-training. Prep yourself for being able to brush it off because you’re the Mom and you know what you’re doing (because even when we don’t, we do).
Oh, and if your preschool/daycare pressures you, don’t bend to it. Schools are in the habit of pushing & stressing about potty-training. Your kid is yourkid. Not theirs. Stand up for what you want.
I have a friend whose daughter potty-trained really young & the school wasn’t “prepared” to have a child that young going to the potty. So they had to switch schools. I think the original school should’ve been more flexible & accommodated this little girl who was ready to use the potty. They have since made the necessary changes.
And then I have another friend who got berated by her daughter’s school for not being fully potty-trained by the time they thought she should be (2 years old!). One day, when her child realized she needed to go potty but was outside on the playground, she went off to a corner by herself, pulled down her panties like she’d been taught, and went. I applaud her for that. So did her parents. Her teachers did not.
You can’t win. At least that’s what it feels like sometimes. And it’s definitely what our kids feel like sometimes.
So there you go. I have 2 kids and had 2 very different potty-training experiences.
There was no “one right way.”
Both of my kids are potty-trained. Both are happy. And besides those stressful 20 minutes that one time, both potty-trained with no pressure.
Now, here’s all the shit you need for all the shits. Just kidding, my mom would kill me for saying that. But it was too perfect & I couldn’t resist. Here’s what you need:
Potty-training List
(items that made potty-training as smooth as possible for us):
Small Starter Potty: This one looks like a real potty & I really think there is value in that. It looks just like a smaller version of yours. It also makes a flushing sound, which kids LOVE to do. (Seriously, you’ll have to put a cap on the flushing in general cuz they’re obsessed). We only got one of these because we transitioned to the regular toilet as soon as they showed interest (see below).
Travel potty FTW.
Toilet Training Top: This is a total must-have. We have 3—one for each kid’s bathroom & one for the bathroom by the kitchen. It makes your toilet “their size.” They love it because it keeps them from falling in & makes them feel very secure. It’s super easy to clean & super easy to take with you on a trip or to Grandma’s or wherever.
With both kids we let them start in the small potty linked above, and the second they started wanting to go on the real potty we were all for it. So much easier (zero clean up) & makes it much easier for them to go on public toilets, too, because they’re used to it.
Squatty Potty: I’d say this is our other true must-have. Like the toilet top above, this is something my kids used every single day (& still often do!). It helps them poop so much more easily because it gives them a way to “bear down.” It doubles as a stool for them to climb onto our full size toilets, too. It was a game-changer for us.
Books: We didn’t go heavy on reading potty-training books. But both our kids love Daniel Tiger & this Daniel Tiger potty book is one that they both freaking loved. They can push a button to make a real flushing sound. I do think this book helped them be excited about the potty. The only other one we got was this Potty book because the “Yummy Yucky” book from the same author was one of their all-time faves.
Travel Potty: With my son, we honestly just let him pee on the pavement between the car doors if he needed to suddenly go potty. So I never needed a travel potty. With my daughter, we did that a couple times with me holding her while she squatted but it’s too hard to avoid getting it on her panties or shoes, so I wised up & bought a little travel potty & it has been AWESOME. I keep it in the back of my car & she goes right in the trunk. (And if I’m being totally honest, so do I. I use it all the time. Maybe it’s all the coffee I drink. Maybe it’s a leftover side effect from labor.) Then we pour it out, wipe it out, and voila! Done. We use it every single time we’re out & about.
If you have a little girl I highly recommend getting one to keep in the back of your car. If you have a little boy you can either be one with nature like us (ha) or perhaps be a more respectable human being and get one. Runner ups: this super simple Ikea one or this one.
Fave girl undies: THESE. I tried a few types and these are the clear winners. Adorable designs, super soft & thick without being too thick, no elastic to cut into them. Size up.
Thing I didn’t know I needed but actually really like: these toilet seat covers for when you’re out & about. I grew up putting TP on the seat in public places & did the same thing for my kids. BUT, kids love to hold onto the sides of the potty or prop their hands on the back (especially in public places because they feel like they might fall in), and the TP doesn’t cut it. These cover the whole thing & then you just toss them. I keep them in the diaper bag. Will I ever stop carrying a diaper bag even though there are no longer diapers in it?I think not. (I actually carry a diaper backpack that I freaking love & will never give up.)
Mom Potty-Training Pro Tip: These prune pouches. Seriously, these things are MAGIC. I used religiously FOR YEARS when my kids were struggling to go. They are a total mom-hack & I’ve been tempted to try one on more than one occasion. They’re just prunes + water. We kept these on hand 24/7. My kids would actually ask for “a purple pouch” when their tummy didn’t feel right. Kids get constipated. It’s a thing. These work. (And trust me, there’s so much to be said for making it easier for kids to poop, especially when they’re potty-training.)
Probiotics: It seems like it makes sense to share these here. Love these—gut health is important (especially when/if your kid is taking antibiotics. Or if they just came back from their grandparents’ house, ha.).
*If your child is on the bigger side or later to potty train (my son was both), these booster padsare a MIRACLE. At 3+ years old, his diapers would be soaked & overflowing. They couldn’t contain the amount of pee he had overnight. I found these booster pads & at night you just stick them in the diaper where they pee (make sure they don’t stick out the top of the diaper). They worked wonders & bought us probably 6 more months in diapers than we could’ve gotten with just diapers alone (his diapers were so full they were soaking through his PJs).
Questions about potty-training? Leave them in the comments. Already tackled potty-training? Tell me what worked for you & what potty-training items you loved.
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Every now & then you stumble upon something that actually makes a difference in your life. And it sounds silly to say that about a set of kid’s hourglass timers, but I’d be lying if I said they hadn’t rocked our world by helping get our kids to clean up after themselves.
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(Here’s the link to the hourglass timer set we have in case you want to skip the article…but I’d “buy now” & then come back & read. Some solid Mom hacks in this one.)
As parents, we were struggling to get our kids to clean up. That’s how it all started.
I’m a big believer in letting kids make messes & play & use their imaginations in the biggest & best ways. I love that part of childhood. But if you’re going to let them play like there’s no tomorrow, that usually means them making a mess like there’s no tomorrow, too.
We’d play play play all day, but then when it was time for our kids to clean up it was basically Mission: Impossible.
They’d complain. Or fuss. Or cry. But, we’d always manage to get our kids to clean up. (Well, at least our son. Our daughter…not so much.)
The problem was how much effort it took from us—the parents—to get our kids to clean up.
It took A LOT.
If I’m being honest, it would be both easier & more peaceful if we just cleaned up everything by ourselves every night. But what would that be teaching our kids? Not a damn thing. It’s important that they know how to clean up after themselves and it’s our job as parents to help them learn how.
So, we would basically spend 30 minutes every night trying to get our kids to clean up. (I mean just look at that mess)
We would oversee their clean up. And not from a distance. I mean overseeing it by being right next to them in the clean up trenches, constantly saying “Okay, what about this? How about that? Does it look clean? Where does that go? Don’t just throw things in there, put them back in the right place.”
It was driving my husband and me nuts. It was exhausting us. And, it was exhausting our kids. Even the tiniest messes became big deals. Messes that should take 10 minutes for our kids to clean up would take 30. Or more.
So one night I decided I was done with being the clean-up referee & dishing out play-by-play clean up instructions. I got the biggest box I could find from the garage (luckily I had just ordered dog food on Amazon), brought it upstairs & just said, “You have 10 minutes to clean up. Anything not in the right spot after those 10 minutes will go in this box. And those toys will stay in that box until you earn them back because if it’s too much to clean up then it’s too much to play with.”
They were floored.
It mostly worked, but they kept asking if it had been 10 minutes yet. On repeat. Like every 10 seconds. So, it was still exhausting, albeit less so.
I realized we needed some kind of clean-up timer, and it hit me that an hourglass timer for kids would be ideal so they could have a visual of the time. I came across a kid’s hourglass timer set and BOOM. It was go time.
(Hallelujah for 2 day shipping.)
The night the kid’s hourglass timers got delivered, I put the 10 minute timer out & explained that the sand would take 10 minutes to empty to the bottom & after that—”time’s up.” Let me tell you, having that visual was HUGE for my kids (they’re 5 & 3 but were 4 & 2 at the time). It was crucial for the success of my new “hands off” clean up routine that they be able to monitor how much time they had left on their own.
Kids have no concept of time when they’re young. It’s one of my favorite things about having little kids, actually. Because I can say “10 minutes” to anything whether it’s 2 or 30 minutes. Or I can say it’s “almost bedtime” at 4:00 if I want. They don’t know. I’m milking that for as long as I can.
But the flip side of that is, you can’t tell them “10 minutes” & expect them to know how to manage that. That was the mistake I made the first night with the clean-up box. As soon as I introduced the kid’s hourglass timers into the mix, it was Mission: Accomplished.
And the crazy thing is, my kids immediately loved using these timers. They loved monitoring the time progression and “warning” each other when they were getting close to running out of time.
These kid’s hourglass timers deserve total “mom hack” status. They proved so successful with getting our kids to clean up that we started using them for everything we could:
Timeouts
Brushing teeth
Taking turns with toys they both “had first”
Screen time/tablet time
How much longer they can play until dinner
Brother/Sister play time before bed
The list could go on & on.
These hourglass timers for kids have become one of my favorite mom hacks—for everything from getting our kids to clean up to getting them to play nicely together.
I love all the time options in our kid’s hourglass timer set because there’s the perfect timer for everything.
1 minute brushing teeth. 3 minutes with the “toy of the moment” before they have to switch. 5 minutes until dinner. 10 minutes to clean up. 15 minutes to clean up a big mess. 20 minutes to play before we have to get ready for bed. 30 minutes of brother/sister time before tuck-in. Or tablet or screen time. The options are endless.
And my favorite thing about using the kid’s hourglass timers is that it leaves zero room for questions.
No more “How much longer?” or “Is it almost time?” or “Is it my turn yet?” The timers speak for themselves. Which means I might can finally catch my breath. And somehow my kids listen—like reallylisten—to those inanimate silent timers. Even better than they listen to me.
And you know what? I don’t even care. I’m totally calling it a win.
I have a new Mom Hack & my kids are as obsessed as I am: a Kid’s Charcuterie Board.
You’re probably thinking it sounds “too fancy” for your kids to like or for you to worry about. Double wrong.
Read on for how I stumbled upon the brilliance that is a Kid’s Charcuterie Board, why we’re all in love with it, & how to throw together your own with zero effort.
We recently started doing Family Movie Nights every Sunday & it has been so special & fun. We all pick a movie together & snuggle up on the couch….Well, most of us. Our 3 year old daughter basically plays the whole time, but still—it’s some awesome family QT.
But, I didn’t want to stop & cook during movie night. I wanted to be present with my family and not just in the background like Mamas so often are (because who else is going to do allll the things?) So as I looked in the pantry & fridge for something quick & easy, I pulled a few options out that I was going to decide between. Then I realized I had pulled out fruit, crackers, & nuts…basically the beginning of a charcuterie board.
So I grabbed one of my fave wooden trays & just started putting a few of all those things on there. A couple different types of crackers, whatever fruit we had on hand, some nuts, then I grabbed black olives, some ham, & since we were out of cheese sticks I just put a little pile of shredded mozzarella on there. We had half a bell pepper & like 3 slices of cucumber leftover in the fridge so I threw those on there, too.
I couldn’t get over how awesome this little improvised Kid’s Charcuterie Board looked.
I took it back over to the coffee table & set it down & said “This is a Charcuterie Board, you can eat whatever you want straight off of it.” My kids looked at me like they couldn’t believe what I’d just said & done. No plates? Whatever we want? As much as we want? In whatever order we want? Needless to say, THEY LOVED IT.
And so did I.
Because I’d inadvertently discovered the easiest dinner ever: a Kid’s Charcuterie Board.
You can throw on anything you want. No matter how you do it, it looks special & different & fun. You can’t mess it up.
And my favorite part is this: It takes zero planning to put together and it’s the most perfect way to use up little bits of leftovers you didn’t want to throw out but that aren’t enough for a full meal! Total Mom Hack.
To make your own Kid’s Charcuterie Board, just raid your pantry & fridge…and voilà! Done. But for a little extra inspo, below are some ideas for things to round it out.
And remember—you just need a little bit of each thing. Don’t overdo the portions. It’s more about variety than quantity.
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*Kid’s Charcuterie Board:
-Crackers
I’ve used basic crackers like saltines & cheez-its and “fancy” ones like our fave raisin rosemary crackers from Trader Joe’s. Pretzels, goldfish, & veggie sticks also work great!
-Fresh Fruit
Whatever you have on hand. Slice them up. Strawberries, grapes, apples, blueberries, bananas, oranges (& yes the mandarin packs totallyyy count)
-Dried Fruit
Raisins, craisins, apricots, etc.
-Nuts
Honey peanuts & pistachios are the faves in our house. And the praline pecans from Costco.
-Veggies
Pepper slices, cucumber sticks or rounds, carrots, tomatoes, pickles
-Olives
I couldn’t bring myself to put olives under fruit even though technically that’s what they are
-Meat
I usually throw in some ham or turkey strips or chunks, but recently I put pepperonis on there just to see what my kids thought. Neither liked them but it’s all about no-pressure exposure so I’ll keep throwing a couple on.
-Cheese
Pile of shredded cheese, cheese slices or cubes, cheese sticks (My kids love brie & honey goat cheese when I put it on the crackers for them. When it’s just sitting there by itself, not so much…)
-Sweets
Pile of chocolate chips, graham crackers, cookies, yogurt raisins, yogurt pretzels, or a couple pieces of chocolate
-Miscellaneous
Anything else you’ve got. Seriously, I’ve thrown a handful of cereal on there several times & it’s always the first thing they go for. And boiled egg halves. They always love those. If I was feeling like I wanted to clean up a mess, I’d throw a tiny bowl of honey or jam on there. But let’s be honest, I’m never feeling like that so I never put any condiments on there. But you might be braver than me, in which case—go for it.
The beauty of a Kid’s Charcuterie Board is…you can’t do it wrong.
-Tray
And, of course you need a great cheese tray/board, which you probably already have. But, if you don’t, I have 2 top picks from Amazon: a “blank slate” board & a board with small bowls/spoons. Both are the perfect size, the perfect shape, & the perfect price. I use a blank slate board for ours because it makes cleaning so easy & there is nothing to break, but I can see how the bowls would be useful & fun!
*I want to make sure I mention that I always cut up every single thing to lessen the chance of choking. My child choked a year ago & it was the scariest moment of my life. I’ll never forget it. Take the 2 extra minutes to cut the grapes & olives vertically (& again after that if they’re still too big), and the cherry tomatoes, heck I even cut blueberries in half if they’re too big. Nuts are a big choking hazard so be wary of those (I pick out the whole peanuts & only serve my kids the halves). Did you know that bananas & peanut butter are also big choking hazards for kids? I used to not. I do now. There’s no harm in being cautious about choking hazards but there is most certainly the possibility of harm if you’re not.
Besides being so easy to put together & using up lots of my leftovers, the thing I love about doing a Kid’s Charcuterie Board for my two is how much they love it.
From the very first time I set one in front of them, it was clear that it made them feel like something was extra special about the whole night. It just looks special. And having the freedom to eat as much as they want and in whichever order they want just feels special.
And I mean, I get it. I love charcuterie boards, too. If we’re being honest a charcuterie board is really just a delicious tray of snacks. And who doesn’t love snacks?
(And here’s an added bonus: study after study shows that allowing kids to eat the things they love with no pressure to eat the things they don’t like or are unsure of is the key to helping them learn to like & try new, different foods. So, a Kid’s Charcuterie Board is a perfect vehicle for that kind of no-pressure dinner.)
Throwing together a Kid’s Charcuterie Board is an easy way to be a “fun” Mom. And that’s the type of mom hack we can all get on board (get it?) with.